The First Visit

Dear EggSperts — So, Great News!  My first appointment is on the books!  So, now what? I know I need to fill out the New Patient Patient paperwork before I arrive, but what next?  Will the doc do a pap or look at  my ‘hoo-ha’? Will I have to get undressed?  Pee in a cup? Who knew I’d have more questions than before? Ugh. —  Inquisitive in Indiana, again

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Dear Inquisitive in Indiana—We are elated to hear that you were able to schedule your first appointment!  Let’s dive in. 

The first appointment is exciting and nerve-wracking for everyone.  Afterall, this is the first time you will meet your new care team, right?  Regardless of which practice you have chosen to schedule with, a team of specialists will be responsible for your care along your journey. You will be cared for by receptionists, medical assistants, nurses, doctors, embryologists, and even insurance/billing specialists. You may meet all, or some of them, at your first visit. You may have a dedicated team or you may meet many individuals along your way.  Either way, we are all here to make babies and build families!

While every practice is different, all new patient appointments will include time for conversation with a specialist to confirm information in the health history you provided, your fertility goals and any concerns you may have about your upcoming journey.  If you were able to complete forms prior to your arrival, there is a great chance the care team already knows a little about you and have been preparing for your arrival for some time.  You will have an opportunity to meet with your specific provider and discuss these goals or concerns after your initial patient intake is complete. 

Many times, a new patient appointment may include preliminary testing such as blood work, urine testing, an ultrasound, and possibly a physical exam(so, yes, panties off, ladies).  Other times, these follow-up examinations or tests will be scheduled as subsequent appointments. Or you may be provided referrals to complete these tests with other care providers at a later date.  Most of the time, referrals are given to patients who may have insurance coverage for testing that may require the patient to pay out of pocket if these tests were performed at the office of your fertility specialist.  If your personal schedule does not allow for you to complete these tests on the same day as your new patient appointment, be sure to let your care team know that you will need to return later.  And, don’t worry if you happen to be menstruating.  Your care team can address those accommodations, if required, when you meet. 

As ‘un-fun’ as the poking and prodding can be, understand that you are the patient.  You should ALWAYS feel comfortable.  If you don’t, speak up.  Chances are, your specialist has cared for a patient previously with a similar worries.  We are here to listen first, and help second. 

Before we sign off, did your office mention anything about a co-pay or fee for your initial appointment?  Some offices will collect a fee for the appointment, just like any other physician’s office, so be prepared financially the day of your appointment in that regard. 

We hope we met your Eggspectations–An Eggspert

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